Saturday 18 October 2008

menyebok atau membantu.....

assalamualaikum,
how are you amigos. fawwaz now is sitting on my lap while I am struggling to type this blog. things are getting better now despite the whether are getting chiller and colder. did you guys remember my earlier writing when i mentioned about some of our malaysian quarters who liked or maybe unintentionally confused (in their eagerness ) to help another of their own countrymen. i am yet to enlighten you another classic example.
onother reason why me and my spouse try to avoid to do here is giving tips and advices to other new malaysian families who just arrived in uk - buying a car. beli kereta ni bukan perkara yang mudah kerana silap perhitungan bukan membawa untung tapi bawak bahana pada diri sendiri. you only buy a car when you are really-really ready. sebab kalau salah beli...rugi.
memang kereta murah kat uk. you can get around 300-400 pound sterling tapi murah tak semestinya mudah. kena buat budget and in this little west yorkshire punya kes, perangai 'kipas' yg ada kat sini sebiji macam orang malaysia. nak jual barang mesti mahal dan nak untung. tapi beli kereta mahal pun tak semestinya elok sebab semua bergantung pada nasib.
Jangan sebab kita kena usya dengan kawan suruh beli kereta kitapun terpedaya. yang akhirnya kita juga kena tahu apa yang kita buat sebab yang tanggung akibatnya kita laki bini nanti. kena firm dan tegas...sebab yang buat suggestion pada kita takkan bayar kos baiki kereta bila kereta kereta kita buat hal nanti. ingat tu...kawan.
so, kalau nasib you tak baik...banyaklah bersabar sebab kena tersedu (hiccups) ni biasa...especially bila kita baru kat uk. so berbalik pada kes beli kereta tu, bila beli kena periksa kereta tu elok ke tidak, kereta potong ke atau kereta asal. once beli nak mengundur tak boleh buat lagi. tanya pada yang betul-betul arif sebab as i said before, kat sini pandainya kurang tapi yang memandai-mandailah yang ramai.
sini juga ramai yang suka menyebok dari yang betul-betul ingin membantu. salah-salah hemat, sokong membawa rebah. jadi berhati-hati kawan...sebab kadang-kadang kawan akhirnya boleh jadi lawan.


Thursday 9 October 2008

be positive.....

hello friend...

how are you my friend? moi? I'm fine thank you. yeah...i notice too, cuaca makin lama makin sejuk dan hatipun semakin murung. memang semonyel namanya. angin badan ikut cuaca... kalau cuaca terang dan cerah obviously many will be churppy and happy tapi kalau memanjang je cuaca somber, murung, gelap dan berangin...memang beranginlah juga badan dan kepala.

Let me share with you one good news. we are now having two new families from malaysia to stay in little west yorkshire. so welcome you guys to LITTLE WEST YORSHIRE!!!! Infact, me and family were having great times during Eid Mubarak. Raya hari tu meriah gila, dan sedar tak sedar hari ni dah masuk hari ke 10 dalam bulan Syawal. Seronok juga masa rasa hari tu, buat dekk...je lepas tu lama-lama rasa rindu dendam kat famili di Malaysia pun kuranglah walaupun tak hilang.

Anyway and anyhow, I got one bad news from a dear friend from back home. she's rock bottom at the moment. tapi relaxlah..this is just one of the thing yang berlaku dalam hidup. you'll live sis and definately you will move on with your life.

tapi dalam apa juga kehidupan kita, jangan lupa solat dan banyak baca quran bila ada kelapangan. bila rasa bosan dan depress mendatang menggila-gila...jangan ikut perasaan. lawan dan banyak beristighfar. tulah, the best remedy yang kita boleh buat kalau depress dan bila angin satu badan kencang kat kepala. so ...be positive dan jangan mudah putus asa.

Kadang-kadang kita kena tengok sekeliling kita, dan sedarkan diri yang apa yang berlaku pada diri tak seteruk yang kita sangka. sedih-sedih kita, kita masih ada adik beradik dan mak bapak. sedih-sedih dan depress kita, kita masih boleh makan dan berkemampuan membeli apa yang kita hajatkan.

Allah SWT sangat sayangkan hambanya yang tidak berputus asa dan tidak lupa meminta doa daripada-NYA.
So my friend, if you start feeling down, really down to rock bottom, you actually know what to do. Just pray and keep on praying to HIM. Allah SWT itu amat mendengar, maha pemurah, maha pengasihani dan maha mengetahui apa yang tersirat dan tersurat
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I have so many interests. I love reading, I love compiling old Malay recipes and experimenting them through cooking. I adore my baby and I love spending time with my other half despite I see him everyday. I love humming because I strongly believe it is good for my soul. I feel so complete when I gave birth to my baby boy. I am blessed and so fortunate to be given a chance to be a mother, a daughter, a wife and a sister to somebody. Despite losing my individual identity when I agreed to say 'I do', Never in seconds ever I doubt, begrudged or regrets having all that. Will always love my mum and my dad till I die.